The Good, The Bad, The Family
Annalyse is a licensed marriage and family therapist in New Mexico. She brings her experience with couples and families into every episode. Annalyse discusses the impact that culture and society has on relationships, explores ways to heal and overcome the challenges of every day life, and enjoys spilling the tea on how pop culture influences post-modern relationships. Her guests include other professionals in the field and, of course, she could never leave out her own family members! We’re so glad you’re here!
Episodes

Friday Oct 06, 2023
Friday Oct 06, 2023
Why are men most often at the center of our lives, on a personal, professional, and systemic level?
In this episode I dive into the dynamics many couples and families struggle with when it comes to managing the emotions of the men in their life to create safety, how awareness on gender dynamics can impact your relationship, and what can couples do to create meaningful and lasting change.
I am joined by Angela Porter, LPCC and Celia Beaty, LPCC, two incredible therapists that have years experience working with couples and families.
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What you can expect from Season Four of The Good, The Bad, The Family
All or nothing thinking
The “fix it” mentality
Is it Unhealthy to Romanticize Men?
Teaching Consent Young
Dating Apps in your 30s/40s - What’s going on with men?
Men in sports
Power and Control
How to navigate porn: when raising boys, when dating men
We're going to have a lot of Tea Time with special guests! Make sure you Subscribe to our Podcast and never miss an episode!
Music Credit:From Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/enlightenment

Monday Aug 28, 2023
Monday Aug 28, 2023
We're back and opening SEASON FOUR with a conversation on patriarchy!
Join me and my husband, Nathan Lucero, as we explore what it's like to be a man, raise three boys, and explore the relationship we have to the patriarchal system and how it impacts our very important community!
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References from This Episode:The Opposite Of Toxic Masculinity is Personhood TikTok
Matriarchy is a Whole Different System TikTok
What you can expect from Season Four of The Good, The Bad, The Family
De-centering Men from your life
All or nothing thinking
The “fix it” mentality
Is it Unhealthy to Romanticize Men?
Teaching Consent Young
Dating Apps in your 30s/40s - What’s going on with men?
Men in sports
Power and Control
How to navigate porn: when raising boys, when dating men
We're going to have a lot of Tea Time with special guests! Make sure you Subscribe to our Podcast and never miss an episode!
Music Credit:From Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/enlightenment

Friday Nov 11, 2022
Friday Nov 11, 2022
Today's guests are Angela Porter, licensed professional clinical counselor, and Andrew Heartman, certified surrogate partner.
On this episode we explore the dynamic between surrogate partners, clients, and therapists. We identify ways that this can impact how a person relates to others, provide healing, and change lives. Andrew shares how being a surrogate partner has impacted his personal life, and together we work toward de-stigmatizing surrogate partner therapy so it can become more accessible.
Make sure to follow me on social media and check out my website for more information and resources.
Want to learn more? Check out these resources Andrew provides:
TV documentary about SPT
Andrew's website
The presentation Dr. Heather Howard and I did for ISSWSH, "Surrogate Partner Therapy: Tools and Lessons that all Providers can apply to Patient Care" is 2nd on this page of videos and interviews.
Surrogate Partner Collective
Surrogate Partner Code of Conduct
Legal and Ethical Statement
How SPT has changed since its inception.
Professional Courses (eligible for AASECT CEs):
Collaborating with Surrogate Partners in the Triadic Model
How to Help Generalize Surrogate Partner Therapy
International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA)

Friday Oct 07, 2022
Friday Oct 07, 2022
There is a constant demand for authenticity in a culture that strives for perfection. I don’t think these two things can coexist… in fact, I believe that perfection doesn’t exist. Join me in this episode as I explore the impact perfectionism and perfectionist thinking has on our relationships, life, and self worth. And I also share some thoughts on how we can change our narrative about perfectionism.
If you're looking for more, find me on my website or connect with me on social media.

Tuesday Sep 06, 2022
Tuesday Sep 06, 2022
On this episode of Family Time, join me and my siblings in a discussion about Meme Sharing... we think it's the new love language and we definitely agree that it is a major factor in culture today. We explore the ways we engage with memes, what it means to share them... and what happens when you get a meme that isn't funny.
What do you think?
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Sunday Aug 07, 2022
Sunday Aug 07, 2022
I'm joined by my friends/co-worker for a discussion on TikTok and Instagram therapy influencers. We share our thoughts on the benefits and risks of social media therapy. We also discuss some of our personal habits with social media, and throw in some ideas on how we can reduce the negative impact all this has on our life and relationships.
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Thursday Jun 30, 2022
Thursday Jun 30, 2022
What's personal power? And what does it have to do with being bored? Join me as I explore this connection and chat with some family members about what they do when they're bored.
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Thursday May 26, 2022
Thursday May 26, 2022
Books, podcasts, brochures, and resources discuss grief in relation to the loss of a loved one. But grief expands beyond death and has no limits to its reach. We grieve for any change in our life, from the smallest differences to the biggest losses. Grief touches us when we change a daily routine or habit and reaches deep into our body when we move away from our family or hometown. In this episode I explore the grief of a military spouse and ways we can transform through our grief.
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*Here are the journal prompts recommended in this episode:
Describe what your grief feels like to you.
What messages did you learn about grief and how are they blocking you from trusting, thinking, and feeling?
Reclaim your thoughts and feelings. Create a timeline of the losses you’ve experienced over your lifetime. Ask yourself, how are these losses impacting my life?

Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
In this episode I am joined by my peer, friend, classmate, and fellow military spouse, Trisha Johnson. Trisha is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina and Marine Spouse of 15 years. She shares her story of being a spouse and military family, and working with military members and their family. I am always amazed by Trisha's knowledge and compassion for her job and family.
If you want to learn more about Trisha and her work check out Moments Matter Therapy online or on Instagram!

Friday Apr 08, 2022
Friday Apr 08, 2022
Join me in a new series I'm calling, "The Good, The Bad, The Military Family," where I join in conversation with military spouses about the hardships and struggles of military life and military culture.
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